Coping with breakup? Where does one begin when coping with a breakup?
Coping with a breakup can be a painful, soul destroying experience. A breakup is generally emotionally devastating and can leave your self esteem utterly crushed.
The first question you need to ask yourself is whether the breakup is necessarily a bad thing? I know it hurts like hell but are you better off without your ex in your life? Did they make you happy? Were they a positive aspect in your life, or a negative?
It’s a tough question, no doubt but it is one that you need to answer truthfully.
Consider these points.
* Did your ex girlfriend/boyfriend satisfy your needs emotionally?
* Was your ex supportive?
* Did they fulfill your sexual needs?
* Did your ex make you happy?
* Was your ex boyfriend/girlfriend honest, did you trust them?
The bottom line is if you decide your ex wasn’t fulfilling your needs adequately, then perhaps you are better off without them.
Of course if your decide that your ex made you happy and that you really need them back in your life, then perhaps we need to examine what options are available to you.
A tremendous ebook on this subject is The Magic of Making Up by T.W. Jackson. It examines the process of breaking up in some detail. From steps for coping with a breakup, to examining what went wrong and ultimately providing in depth strategies on how best to reunite your relationship.
For a more detailed examination of this ebook, please visit my Magic of Making Up Review. The review includes audio and video elements and is a comprehensive overview of The Magic of Making Up.
The advantage of having a well written, comprehensive guide, when coping with a breakup cannot be overstated. All too often we make bad decisions when stumbling through the pain of a breakup. It is so easy to make enormous mistakes when you are in this state.
I really cannot stress just how important a good guide can be at this time. I shudder to think of some of the crazy decisions I made back in the day, when I suffered through a couple of bad breakups.
If a guide like The Magic of Making Up Review had been available back then I could have saved myself a lot of heartache.
Have a look at the review. Hopefully it can provide you with some great tips on coping with a breakup